And every day, all over the world, the most wretched and selfishly wicked people are pulled from a smashed car just before it explodes, or stumble into vast sums of money. And they live day and day and day – living, breathing, and healthy as they gorge themselves on fried chicken, beat their children, and in general carry out their selfish lives.

And maybe they were justified. Thanks God for keeping this friend in our lives and not putting her through the misery of recovering from a destroyed home. But what about the people below? I don't think anyone was harmed, but their home was just about destroyed. Didn't God have a hand in that as well, since it's all his divine plan? Shouldn't we literally thank him for carrying out his plan in his infinite wisdom, even though it involved burning someone's home and putting them out on the street? Someone even used this event as a metaphor, saying that it's amazing how God saves his believers from hell even when it is lapping at their heels. But of course it's very possible the poor owners of the pile of ash below loved Jesus with all their hearts.

If God has a plan for all of us, then we must acknowledge him for both beauty and ugliness. I'll bet anything that Jesus is not a kumbaya-singing hippie who thinks everything is wonderful all of the time. Love can be very elegant, or very harsh. And so can life. And so can God.